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i was thinking about possessions and how they might affect community. i’m so used to buying what I need, when I need it. i’ll run to the store before I’ll ask a neighbor. i’ll rent it before i’ll borrow it from a friend. that way I can have it when I want it.. and return it when I want it. and no one will be inconvenienced. sure, i’ll be paying extra to have my own… but in a world of convenience charges, service charges and processing fees, what’s a couple more bucks?

i made a chart. take a car for instance. everyone around here ‘needs’ a car, right?  but I thought, what am I gaining or losing by having my own vs. sharing with other people?

buy my own                                                                 share/borrow from someone else

i can use it whenever I want                                      i can only use it with someone else or when when no one else needs it

i decide the standards for how                                  i have to trust that others will respect it
clean/well maintained I want it to be                        as much as I do

if something happens to it, it’s up                             if something happens to it, it affects the other people
to me when and how to fix it                                      who depend on it

no one else depends on me and                             we depend on each other to keep the system working
i don’t depend on anyone else

i do not have to maintain a single                            i most likely maintain relationships with every person
relationship in order to use it                                    who uses it

I am responsible to pay the full amount                  we share the cost of the purchase and maintenance among everyone who uses it

we hardly think about sharing any more.. not in the REAL sense of sharing. sharing USED to mean i’ll
give up using it for a while so that you can use it. nowadays, sharing has been re-defined as simply
duplicating something so that more versions of it are floating around.. so that everyone can have their
own.

but that’s not sharing.

take a library for instance. in their heyday, libraries were the one central place which housed books for
the community. when someone checked that book out, no one else could have it. the person was
trusted to return it on time so that the next person could use it. The system was built on trust and a
willingness to deny personal indulgence.

interdependence.

but we hardly need libraries anymore because now we can buy that same book for a few
bucks or download a version for free..  and have our own..

so that no one else will be inconvenienced while we take our time with it.
so that we can use it as frequently as we like, without anyone bothering us.
so that we never have to interact with another living soul in order to get what we want.
self sufficiency.

back to the subject of cars. the appeal of self-sufficiency is so great… so compelling. on paper, it seems
like such an obvious way to simplify life. i mean who wants to carpool every day? who wants to get
trapped at work all day without a way to escape for lunch?

and so every year, the cars get prettier.. shinier.. more personalized.
and every year we build bigger roads, with more lanes, for more cars..
so that everyone can drive to work…alone in their very own car.
so that everyone can sit in traffic… alone in their very own car.

make no mistake, there is a price to either way of life. but somehow, I think the one worth paying is the
one which invites me to slow down and share my things. maybe even share other people’s things.
i think i’m going to sell my car and try taking the bus. either that or a car- share project. who’s in?

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4 Comments
  1. Aileen | 2011.05.04

    Hey, sblute must be your middle name. Great post!

  2. yuutcnduyl | 2011.05.04

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  3. Buddy | 2011.05.03

    Thanks for sharing. Awlyas good to find a real expert.

  4. Jen Glynn | 2010.05.13

    You just got a new car! My first car I ever had finally started having transmission problems :( Through this experience, I have learned a lot about sharing. My dad is sharing his car with me which is helping us build a relationship again and I have in turn been able to bless other church friends without transportation by sharing my own car with them! Sharing is a great way to help ensure we are not living life alone! Thanks for writing this Kelly :)

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